For when someone asks how you’re doing and you don’t know what to say.
After a loss, people say things. Some are kind, some are clumsy, and some sting for days. And you’re expected to answer all of them, usually on the spot.
I Don’t Know What to Say has 40 ready-to-use replies, from “how are you?” to “they’re in a better place” to telling someone months later who hadn’t heard. Copy them, adjust them, or just keep them in your back pocket so you’re never caught with nothing.
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'How are you?'
The question you'll hear more than any other
Taking it day by day, but doing okay, thanks.
This gets asked constantly, and you don't owe a full, honest answer every single time. This short version works for almost any version of this question, casual or caring. Save a fuller answer for people you actually want to talk to about it, and know it's fine to give a different version depending on your actual day.
40 scripts, including
Every one written as specifically as the sample above.
- 'Let me know if you need anything'
- 'They're in a better place now'
- Telling someone for the first time
- Declining an invitation
- Asking someone to stop bringing it up
- When grief overwhelms you mid-conversation and you can't speak
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