Their things can wait. Here’s how to face them when you’re ready.
Everyone seems to have an opinion about what you should do with their belongings, and how soon. The truth is there’s no deadline, and most of it can wait until you’re ready.
This tool covers 40 specific situations, from their shoes still by the door to a phone that keeps getting notifications, to a sibling who wants the same thing you do. Each one helps you understand why it feels so heavy and what your options are, including the option of doing nothing yet.
A free page from inside What Do I Do With Their Stuff?
Their closet, still full
Clothes hanging exactly where they left them
An untouched closet is one of the most common things people put off, sometimes for years, and there's nothing wrong with that. It holds an enormous amount of physical presence, color, shape, smell, in one contained space. You don't have to open this door until you're ready, and 'ready' might be a long way off.
If you do open it, going with someone else the first time can make it feel less overwhelming.
40 situations, including
Every one written as specifically as the sample above.
- A piece of clothing that still smells like them
- Their phone, still charged and waiting
- Voicemails you're afraid to lose
- Someone wants you to get rid of things faster than you’re ready
- A sibling or family member wants the same item
- A memory box, starting small
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